of manipulative Friendships and compromising tales of Love..
Led on to believe, to hope, equally cherish,
false narratives of those playing a sort of game,
that we never knew existed..
The power of persuasion and extravagant promises,
lead our investments..
In building a dream of a better future, of companionship and peace,
there is a certain surrender of the soul..
Poetic or pathetic, only time does tell..
the deeds, the abuse, done and dealt with,
never echoing your own ambitions..
questioning your identity and tearing at it, all the while..
To be in toxic relationships,
is to understand how difficult it is,
to preserve your sanity and
a sort of innocence in the face of constant betrayal..
I gather though, that vengeance and a sense of weakness,
will never let you heal..
a state of closure is paramount..
a sense of justice may also be important..
but it is never healthy to stay a 'Victim'..
your sense of morality, largely, transpires from your own pain..
the longer one stays in this heightened state of defensive vulnerability,
it fuels into the cycle of 'being a victim', again,
to be cautious is, yes, a progress,
but to prefer isolation and be suspicious of,
every new experience does not help the grief.. or the growth thereof..
A sense of accountability on self is as important,
as figuring out what went wrong,
and who is not trustworthy..
wisdom comes from experiences,
but it is important to make a habit of implementing,
the new found knowledge..
obsessive behavior only blinds us to rationality..
Of the fall and rise through Life,
it is imperative to learn,
to be our own guardians, of our mind and our body..
If anything, it reduces the probability of a shock,
at the next instance of hypocrisy..
For this world, is filled with polarizing people,
some entitled, greedy, ignorant
and some are tragically plain and cruel..
we cannot change every sadistic person we encounter,
in some instances, we may be the ones,
who are prejudiced and intolerant..
Therefore, its only wise to mold our own social circles..
never encourage somebody who judges,
intimidates, shades or makes you feel unsafe..
give people second chances,
when they make you feel positive and inspired to grow..
To be consumed by fear is to continue to fail yourself.
Its hard enough to try and not repeat our mistakes,
without the overbearing innuendos of dignity,
definitions of success and happiness.
Therefore a certain sense of lightheartedness is helpful.
Do not take yourself or others too seriously..
Sense of purity and social honor are very perceptive things..
your social structure and how you relate to it,
should never impede your personal prosperity,
or forgiveness and redemption for yourself.
Concepts of Friendships and Love are never unconditional or eternal,
Life itself is finite, people change, feelings change and it is alright!
a sense of responsibility and respect, however endures..
these are the very traits seldom coincidental with romanticism..
So, it takes courage,
to cherish the good things while they last,
and be emotionally available for good things to happen in the first place..
If there ever is a next time, for bad things to happen,
know that, in a very twisted way, it is disappointing, but quite normal,
as much as one would want to..
you cannot calculate every single move around you,
Life is to actually Live,
as you age, you stumble less,
but there may be those rare times, that you do..
and then, you get to tailor your responses,
armored with your developing awareness of social acumen,
to suit, your best interests, in a way,
that doesn't take away from your journey of self worth.
There is content in knowing that we all have,
some level of control in a sort of chaos,
with weighing our own actions and words..
with being the observant sage, for yourself,
and trying to discourse another route away from,
the cycle of self destruction and pity
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